The science is clear: You have a high probability of failing at your goals. In fact, the evidence suggests that a staggering 92% of people will, unfortunately, fail to reach the objectives they set for themselves. Please don’t misunderstand me… This is not to discourage you, but to inform you of the truth and, ultimately, arm you with the tools you need to win!
So if 92% of people are failing, the obvious question you’re probably thinking is: What are the other 8% doing that makes them successful?
The answer is hidden in a truth so simple that you may not even take it seriously at first… But here’s the deal… This “secret” is not only backed by science (which I’ll prove in a moment), but it’s also been used by some of the world’s most successful people including Steve Harvey, Oprah Winfrey, Jim Carry, and many more.
Moreover, I’ve also used this tactic to accomplish my most challenging goals as well. So what is this simple secret I’m talking about? It can be found in…
The Power of the Pen
According to a 2007 study conducted by Dr. Gail Matthews (a psychology professor at the Dominican University of California), simply writing your goals down can increase your likelihood of achieving them by as much as 42%! Now, of course, there were other things that contributed to this figure: Accountability, commitment, action steps, progress reports, etc. However, all of those variables fall within the determining factor of grabbing your pen, pulling out that blank page, and writing down your goals.
Because here’s the deal…
When you write out your objectives, you give them life and vitality. They go from abstract ideas in your head to concrete goals on your page. And that’s what helps to solidify them into your consciousness. Now, obviously, there’s more to goal setting than just writing your aims down on paper. So here is a simple system for…
How to Properly Set Your Goals
There are a few simple steps to keep in mind when going through this process. Each one is essential if you want to give yourself the best chance to flourish and become successful.
- Write it Down: We’ve already discussed the power of the pen. Now it’s time to use that power for yourself. With a 42% increase in the likelihood of achieving your goals just by writing it down, this is an easy step you can’t afford to skip.
- Plan it out: A plan is essential, and here’s the thing (and many people get hung up on this): Your plan doesn’t have to be perfect. It just needs to get you going. Once you start taking action and getting feedback from the world, you can then adjust if necessary. So take the time to plan out your goals as best you can without getting too caught up in the details.
- Commit to the process: This is where most people fall short. They write their goals, plan them out, and start taking action. But once they realize they’re not going to become successful overnight, they revert back to their old ways and give up on their hopes and dreams. Things take time to come together. For this reason, you have to be patient and commit to the process. A commitment means you’ll continue to move forward UNTIL you succeed. It means regardless of whether your goal is scaling your business or strengthening your relationships, you’ll never go back; you’ll keep fighting for what you want until it’s yours.
Compelling Goals Allow You to Flourish
Life becomes an exciting adventure when you have worthwhile goals that excite you! Moreover, these kinds of goals empower you to flourish. You learn, grow, develop, and become more as you strive toward the objectives you set for yourself. For this reason, you should always have something in your heart that you’re aiming to achieve. It doesn’t matter whether it’s starting a business, getting in shape, or simply strengthening the connections with people in your community, having goals creates a meaningful life.
Here are a few other benefits of setting compelling goals:
- Fast-track your self-improvement
- You become more resilient and persistent
- Become more decisive and build self-confidence
- Develop a sense of purpose and direction
- Personal satisfaction and self-respect
Are You Ready to Flourish and Achieve Your Goals?
You can create the life of your dreams; you can flourish in every way if you choose. It’s possible. All you need to do is set and begin moving toward goals that excite and stimulate you! And the best part? We at Certified Flourish Coach can help! Our team of expert coaches and facilitators operate from an evidence-based framework that has been proven—time again—to foster positive, long-lasting change both personally and professionally.
So if you’re ready to finally start flourishing with your goals, in your business, and in your life, then contact us today to learn more!
About The Author
Alex Brown is a Self-Improvement Writer and Speaker. His work helps people cultivate decisiveness, channel discipline, and control their direction in life. Alex has written for some of the world’s most prominent and respected personal development sites and has given many speeches to schools, charity events, businesses, and organizations, educating audiences on the power of self-improvement.
