You have a right to find your voice, make your mark, and be heard in the world. This is a necessary part of your development. It’s how you will be able to grow into the best version of yourself and start flourishing in every area of your life. The good news is that getting on this path doesn’t require you to attend a dozen seminars, read 100 books, or go on a meditation retreat to “find yourself.” 

All that’s required to find your voice is a change in mindset. Luckily, there are only 3 easy shifts you need to make in your thinking to uncover your unique voice so you can carve your own lane and begin thriving in life. 

1. You’re Not for Everybody

You have to stop worrying about the opinions of others. So often, we become so consumed by the thoughts and opinions of people we don’t even know, or like that we hold ourselves back from reaching our full potential. I’ll tell you what: If people don’t love and accept you for who you are, they are not your real tribe. Your tribe is out there. You’re not for everyone, so you have to circulate through life, being unapologetically yourself, and those who are meant to be in your life will find you. 

However, that will never happen if you’re caught in the trap of trying to get everyone to accept a fake version of yourself. Don’t waste your precious, valuable time on those who don’t recognize how amazing you are. By separating and distancing yourself from the wrong people, you create space in your life for the right people to fill.

2. Purpose Determines Path

You must discover your purpose if you want to find your voice. Your purpose will unlock doors of opportunity and lead you to incredible places, people, and possibilities. But you have to take that step forward to discover what your unique purpose is. Here are a few simple questions you can ask yourself to get your mind thinking about this topic more critically:

• What makes you mad?
• What makes you glad?
• What makes you sad?

Your purpose can be found in the things that trigger your emotions. So, what gets you wiled up? What brings tears to your eyes? What inspires and encourages you? These are things that—on the surface—may seem innocuous. But they are the key that can open the door to your purpose.

3. Consistency Wins the Race

One of the things I do every single morning is go for my runs. It doesn’t matter if it’s cold or warm, rain or sunshine, tired or full of energy, I go for my daily run. Not every run is perfect. And it doesn’t need to be because regardless of the conditions, I’m going to show up! Why? Because it’s not about perfection; it’s about consistency. 

You have to be consistent if you want to find your voice. Consistency builds character. And character is what you need to stand up against those who try to shun you or shut you down. Moreover, consistency develops the strength and grit that is essential for you to go the distance in your life. View yourself as the tortoise who beats the hare. 

Slowly and steadily, you are continually trotting along toward your destination. Your voice will be revealed to you through continual effort toward your most important goals. As a result, you know it will be who you truly are because of the internal strength you’ve developed due to your continual self-directed effort. And that’s something no one can take away from you!

Final Thoughts

Finding your voice is a process; it’s a continual unfolding of your life’s journey. The key phrase there is “your life’s journey.” Your journey is uniquely your own. Therefore, you shouldn’t compare yourself to anyone in any category. No matter how far you go, there will always be people ahead of you. And no matter how far you fall, there will always be people behind you. Therefore, comparison is a game that makes no sense to play. 

Focus on yourself and improve your current situation little by little, day by day. And if you need assistance, we’re here to help. At Certified Flourishing Coach, we are an expert team of coaches and facilitators who use an evidence-based system for personal and professional growth. So, if you’re ready to flourish in life, contact us today to learn more. 

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